"Can a Bottle of Rum Turn Me Into Ernest Hemingway?" Published by The Writing Cooperative

I generally try to avoid becoming drunk, but to test out the adage “write drunk, edit sober,” I got drunk ON PURPOSE. Did it make me a better writer? Check out my article for The Writing Cooperative to find out!

P.S. if you are interested in writing, The Writing Cooperative is a fantastic resource. I recently became a member of Medium, and I can highly recommend it. Medium has the gamut of useful and interesting articles, with the option to bookmark articles and return to them later (something useful in my tech detox.)

Bidding Kids & Race A Fond Farewell

It’s been my pleasure to work for Kids & Race for the last two years, first as a grant writer, then as the Kids and Race Blog’s Contributing Editor. During my time with the organization, I worked with many talented writers and helped bring their stories and essays to completion. I had the opportunity to read and listen widely and to develop a more nuanced view of the history of race relations in America, how children develop racial identity, and how we can work together as individuals, families, and communities to create a more just and equal society.

I will forever be grateful to K&R’s executive director, Jasen Frelot, for taking me on and for teaching me so much. I will treasure this experience always and continue to believe in the good work that he is doing.

While this work is supremely worthwhile, I’ve decided it’s time for someone else to take it up. I would like to use my limited writing time moving forward to focus on fiction and memoir, but I will take the lessons learned at Kids & Race with me always: primarily the use of narrative as a means of inspiring empathy in people who are different from us, and the importance of accurate representation of marginalized peoples.

Katharine Strange Wins Moth Story Slam


I’ve been a fan of The Moth podcast for a long time. Real stories told by real people—some of them are funny, some of them are moving, all of them are incredibly interesting. When my friend, Aadu, won a StorySlam last year and went to the Seattle GrandSlam, it was a great excuse to check out the live event. It was so fun, and I made it a goal to get up onstage at a StorySlam in 2019.

The StorySlam is a nervewracking experience for a storyteller. I filled out a one-page release and stuck it into a tote bag. There are only room for 10 stories, so I didn’t even know if I would get called. The stakes were high: I’d gotten a babysitter and one of my writer’s group colleagues had come all the way from Kirkland!

Halfway through, jittery-kneed, I was convinced that A) I wasn’t going to be called and that B) even if I was called, I wasn’t going to win. The competition was FIERCE. I’d expected the theme, “Love Hurts” to spawn stories of heartbreak and dead dogs, but instead, nearly everyone was hilarious. Which was my plan of attack.

I got called ninth. I went up onstage and started to talk, and I improvised a bit on what I’d written, and I soon went over time. I ended up cutting a bit at the end, and the whole piece was rather imperfect, but still, the experience felt magical. I love live theater for the way that it connects the audience and the performer, and onstage, just me and a microphone, talking to 300+people, it felt unreal.

It was even more unreal when my mental-math-ninja husband leaned over and whispered to me, “it looks like you won.” I was shocked. I’m still shocked. But it’s thrilling and I’m looking forward to what comes next for this piece and for The Moth. My story is eligible to air on NPR and I will be invited to a Moth Grandslam sometime in the next year. (I’ll keep you posted as soon as I know the dates in case you want to get tickets!)

Scary Mommy Publishes "What Preschool Teachers Really Want to Say"


I’m thrilled to publish my first piece with Scary Mommy! I love Scary Mommy’s hilariously blunt takes on parenting and I’m so excited to contribute a piece of my own about my undying affection/complete misunderstanding of preschool teachers. I’d love for you to check it out and leave a comment about what you think!

Upcoming Speaking Engagements

As a retired theater nerd, it’s probably not surprising that I enjoy public speaking, particularly when it’s a topic I’m passionate about. I’m very excited to announce that I have 3 upcoming speaking engagements in the next few weeks:

  • Thursday, January 17th, 6:30pm at Columbia City Church of Hope, I will be part of a panel discussing school choice and racial integration

  • Tuesday, January 22nd, 6:30pm at Leschi Elementary School, a second panel discussion for Integrated Schools

  • Wednesday, February 6th, 6:00pm at Van Asselt Elementary School, I will be presenting “Kids and Race: Changing the Narrative”

In other news, Kids and Race is doing a major revamp on our website, and I’m getting a new email address. You can email me at editor @ talkingrace.org with all your questions on social justice parenting.

"My Bologna" Published by Literary Yard

I am thrilled to announce that my short story, My Bologna, has been accepted for publication by Literary Yard. This was a really fun story to write, drawing upon my experiences as an expat/immigrant living in Europe as well as encounters with the weight loss industry. I’m so excited to get my first acceptance into a literary journal. Check it out!


The End of One Era, the Beginning of Another...

UPDATE: Fundamentally Free is continuing! The blog has changed hands but will continue a regular posting schedule into the future. Keep an eye out for a few more posts from yours truly.

Fundamentally Free, a blog for #exvangelicals, is coming to an end. Our fearless leader, Mandy, has been running the blog since January, and it’s become too much. As a fellow blog editor, I know how much work it is recruiting contributors, editing and writing, creating a consistent posting schedule, and continually defining and redefining what the project is about.

I’ve really enjoyed writing for Fundamentally Free. Throughout my various posts, and especially with my last series, “Exvies Try Stuff", I’ve had the opportunity to hold my faith and my doubts, to think through my process of deconstruction as I wrote, and to push myself to explore things I’d never tried before. I truly relish the opportunity to work on these projects. And if it wasn’t quite as lucrative as I’d hoped, it was personally very valuable. I plan to compile links to my FF work on my website soon.

In other exciting news, my role with Kids and Race continues to grow! This week I completed my training to become a workshop leader. Talking through the material with Jasen was thrilling. He’s a gifted and brilliant thinker, a great communicator, and I hope that I can pull of these workshops with the same pizzazz that he does.

If you would like to book one of our three workshops (Changing the Narrative, Color Conscious, or Power and Privilege) please contact booking@talkingrace.org

I'm Podcasting!


As part of my ongoing work with Kids & Race I wrote a blog post a few weeks ago called "The Case For Sending Your Privileged Kid to a Low-Performing School." I was so excited to share information about school segregation with the K&R audience. And they seemed to like it, too! The post went low-key viral, and so K&R's director, Jasen Frelot, asked me to come into the studio and record a podcast.

It was a little bit of a learning curb, but so much fun! My voice carries REALLY WELL into the microphone, so I kept having to scoot back from the mic. Jasen and I had a fun and informative conversation about how our society judges "good" and "bad" schools, the pitfalls of relying on standardized tests, and whose kids were the stinkiest. Click here for the pod! 

"Kids & Race" Re-Booted!

March has been a crazy month! In addition to querying my novel, Manly Man of God, and contributing to Fundamentally Free, I have taken on the editorship of the new Kids & Race blog. 

I've been lucky enough to watch the evolution of Kids & Race since its inception. My good friends, Jasen Frelot and Hannah Hong Frelot came over for dinner two years ago and we chatted about this new workshop Jasen was putting on as part of his internship at The Well. The goal: help a generation of parents, teachers, and caregivers (many of whom were taught the faulty notion of "colorblindness") how to speak to their kids about race.

From that first workshop, Kids & Race exploded! It has now become a series of workshops with its own children's curriculum and an associated preschool.

I've been writing grants and doing communications editing for K&R for about a year now. As someone who was once pretty ignorant on the topic, it's been a great learning experience for me, and I'm excited to reach out to other parents now with resources and answers from the Kids & Race team. We envision this blog as an extension of what happens at a K&R workshop, namely that folks can come to us for straight-forward, easy-to-understand answers to questions they have. If you have a question for the K&R team, you can email us at askme@talkingrace.org

Announcing "Fundamentally Free"

Last year a variety of events, both personal and political, prompted me to reevaluate my religious affiliation. The label "Evangelical Christian" no longer feels like a good fit. I decided to take a hard look at the faith of my childhood, and to seek the Truth, whether it could be found in the church or outside it. It's been a strange journey so far, which has taken me everywhere from Lutheran Bible studies, to a virtual community with members who identify as "heretics," "ex-vangelicals," or "nones." 

I am grateful that there are other people on this journey with me. To that end, I'm thrilled to announce that I will be collaborating on a new blog, "Fundamentally Free," "a blog about Evangelical culture for those who've left it." I will be a monthly contributor writing on a variety of topics including social justice issues and my own faith. I hope you will come along with me on this journey, no matter what label you choose or don't choose for yourself.

Happy New Year! May 2018 be filled with Truth and Love for all of us.

Announcing "The Good Schools Project"

I'm very excited to share my newest project with you! It's something close to my heart that I'm calling "The Good Schools Project." It all started last January when I began thinking about which elementary school to enroll my son in. We were house hunting and suddenly it seemed like everyone from realtors, to friends, to other parents on social media were talking to us about finding a "good" school.

But what is a "good" school? How can busy parents evaluate whether our kids' school is working or not? What are realistic expectations of our schools? And what is it about that phrase "good school" that nags at me? Is "good school" code for something else?

Stay tuned because next Wednesday, September 13, the conversation begins!

Let the Rejection Begin!

Rejection letters are a large part of the publishing process. I've heard it advised that authors query anywhere between 40-60 agents before giving up. I've not yet begun the querying process for Manly Man of God, but I have entered both the Launch Pad Manuscript Competition and #pitchwars, and been rejected by both. That's 5 rejections to kick off this final push through editing and beginning my querying process.

Rejection sucks. I think most authors alternate between thinking that their manuscript is either a masterpiece that will change the world or a flaming pile of garbage. After this latest rejection, I'm leaning toward flaming pile of garbage, but I think the ideas are good. The characters are good. I've even been told that sections of it are funny or powerful. 

So, back to the drawing board. Re-work both the query and the first chapter. Just maybe rewrite the whole thing in first person?! It's probably crazy to do that before querying actual agents, but when I get an idea it's hard to stop myself.

Charles Mudede Knows Who I Am!

Charles Mudede is a treasure. His observational wit, intelligence, and lefter-than-left political leanings warmed the cockles of my heart during many sunless Seattle days. When he started following me on Twitter a few months ago, I *might* have squealed. 

A few weeks ago I decided to start challenging myself to pitch more story ideas. Pitching sucks, but I'm hoping to get better with practice. So I pitched The Stranger on a story idea about a huge dust-up on Beacon Hill Facebook pages regarding racism in "America's Most Diverse Zip Code." I tried to sound funny in my pitch and wrote that Charles Mudede following me on Twitter was one of the highlights of my career. I didn't hear anything, but I patted myself on the back for practicing.

Then Mudede emailed me. (Gulp.) He wanted to talk on the phone! We set an appointment for noon. I was so nervous all morning. When he called I could barely breathe. I spoke so fast that I'm amazed he was able to understand one word in ten. But he was so nice! And he liked my idea! He asked me for 700 words ASAP!

I was excited for Mudede to edit my writing, and I'm very proud of the article "A Black Man Knocks on the Door of a House in Beacon Hill, and..."  It feels very surreal and exciting. Off to more practice pitching!

Summer Reading List

It's already July and I'm taking advantage of some down time to get some summer reading in. Here's my shortlist:

-The Girl on the Train Maybe everyone else read this book three years ago, but, hey, I've got two little kids! Well-written, fast-paced, found the ending slightly unsatisfying.

-Eligible so. much. fun. A worthy update to the Austen catalog.

-The Diverse Schools Dilemma. Very well-researched look into school segregation and desegregation issues. Research for an upcoming series on segregation in Seattle's Public Schools, stay tuned!

-American Housewife. Twisty, hilarious shorts from Helen Ellis. Great book.

-Five Miles Away A World Apart, another book on segregation, this time focusing on a case in Virginia.

-The Handmaid's Tale. Just started this one. Amazing world-building, though it's already given me a nightmare! 

-The Essential Guide to Getting Your Book Published. Haven't started this yet, hopefully it's helpful!

What are you reading this summer?